MY GREATEST HITS

The blog has just crested 61,000 hits, and with 105 entries so far the average number of hits per entry is 580 (hey, look, those high school math skills were useful!). 

Since beginning this little adventure in 2016, with the newer blog site starting in 2017 (long story involving an errant email), I've explored my sexuality, health, misadventures, pornography, naturism/nudism, CFNM, massage, and a half dozen other topics.

It's attracted an audience, and much of the feedback I've gotten suggests the discussion is a useful one. 

But that doesn't tell the true story. So far, and by far, the most popular entries are those that are based on relationships. In order, the five most read blogs have been 


INTIMATE FRIENDS with 1225 hits. A discussion of intimate friendships. Not sexual intimacy, emotional and conversational intimacy.








LOST HORIZONS with 1242 hits. Recovering after a long bout of obesity. It's been a years-long effort which I've discussed repeatedly. This entry seems to be the best-received.







GROUP EFFORTS with 1743 hits. Sex with multiple people at a time, and how bisexuality - or other points on the spectrum - plays into that.






IN A POST-PORN WORLD with 1891 hits. Films that are explicit without being explicit porn.






And with a whopping 3402 hits, nearly double the next most viewed, is MALE BONDING. Similar to Intimate Friends, the topic of this is the ways men can achieve intimacy with each other. I'm fortunate to have re-established that bond with a guy I've known for more than 35 years. 





What this tells me is the there's a hunger to read about how people relate to each other at an intimate level. Even the Post-Porn topic is related, given the films discussed are relationship-driven stories with sexually explicit scenes.

I've got a lot yet to discuss. My weight loss is at a plateau where it's been for a month or more. I have new medical insurance and am headed for a real physical, not just bloodwork, later this month. Now that my urological issues are mostly resolved I'm not spending much time nude in front of anyone beyond my wife.

Had another extremely odd side-effect of being very fit under stubborn layers of fat. On my Squeamish essay I showed a picture of the odd overlap of fat on my stomach. A few days ago I was tanning out in the yard. I was on my stomach when I got a text. I pushed up a bit, and suddenly felt this weird "ripple" on my back, just above my butt. It's a concentration of fat, the back side of the stereotypical "spare tire." 

I took a picture of the area using my phone (had to twist a bit to do so), and it showed an almost straight line across the small of my back, a couple of inches above the top of the gluteal crease. About eight inches long, running from left to right (or vice versa). Just a spot where apparently the fat and the underlying muscle have a disagreement and the fat just folds up.  

So, probably a pretty boring entry. It happens.

"Well, since you asked..."


Comments

  1. AnonymousMay 8, 2022 at 5:59 AM

    I'm enjoying the blog - keep up the good work. For what it's worth, my favorite entry so far is Nude not Lewd, which pulled me over from CFNMvillage. I love stories of caring, domestic, married CFNM situations, because that's exactly what my wife and I enjoy. My fantasies run to more exposure (of me) to more people, especially my wife's friends. Looking forward to the beach this year!
    mrrigid

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    1. AnonymousMay 8, 2022 at 8:45 AM

      Thrilled you made the journey over from CFNMVillage, MrR. As I've said, my favorite CFNM *is* casual, and largely just accepted. Cheers to more fun this Summer!

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