MALE BONDING

(This entry will feature pictures and content related to two naked guys with flaccid cocks. If this shocks or offends you, buh-bye!)

I have been open about being essentially bisexual. Though I have been married for more than twenty-
five years and have a healthy interest in women, there's a bit of my psyche that responds to men. I believe all men are bisexual to some degree, though this is hotly debated by guys who may not be comfortable with admitting it. The label is the problem, I think. But some guys simply aren't wired to be attracted to both sexes.

I have a good friend I've referenced many times here. He's the guy who owns the cock that decorates my website. And, as you might expect from that we're quite close and have no problems with nudity around each other. Our wives think we're crazy.

But it's a wonderful relationship to have in my life.

In the last two years we were kind of distant. Politics got in the way of our friendship. I won't go any further, but we are opposite ends of the spectrum politically. The common joke is that we can't really figure out why we're friends. But there's a simple reason: he's a great guy and is absolutely the closest male friend I have. We truly and legitimately love each other.

So the last couple of years really hurt. I went through some very
difficult times and he avoided being there. Yes, I felt betrayed by that. We talked about it a couple of months ago and worked things out. But until last week there was still a bit of a wall I'd built up.

Last week he called and said he was in the neighborhood - something he's only done a few times before. I was home and he came by. We had a chance to really re-establish that bond, and I am grateful that he felt it was important.

We talked about a lot of things. Our friendship is, as said, a deep one. But we've also had a chance to bond physically. Everything short of direct sex, in fact.


We've been nude with each other dozens and dozens of times. Physical contact, even naked, is part of our friendship. Over the years it's become more and more intimate. I am very tactile and love giving massages. Those, too, have become more intimate to the extent he freely admits to getting erections when I'm working his legs or abs in the hot tub. I've bumped his dick a few times, sometimes accidentally, sometimes on purpose.

Likewise we've sat with each other on the couch, reading and talking, touching thighs or bumping shoulders. Standing nude in the kitchen, bathroom or bedrooms being guys and having an easy, relaxed time being open with ourselves. He's posed for nude pictures, sporting a semi.

We love, if the wives aren't around, to get undressed and just pal around. It's a guy thing. It's a bonding thing. If the wives are here we are respectful and dressed. They obviously know we like to be nude in the hot tub. When it's just us the clothes come off.

Will it go further? I don't know. There are indications he wants to take it further, and given my wife's medical problems I'm certainly not adverse to it. But would it be cheating on our spouses? Yeah, depending on your definition. He and I are both sexually frustrated with our wives. Not an uncommon issue at our age, from all reports. And it would be a chance to rediscover some of the sexual energy of our youth.

We'll see.