In college and High School I had a series of friends you would call Fuck Buddies. Friends with whom there was no romantic connection, however sex was very much on the table. It was in many ways a pressure valve for both of us, letting us have sex outside of a traditional relationship. It also allowed for serious experimentation and education, since none of us - whichever FB it was - had an emotional commitment beyond friendship. No strings attached, just glorious sex. My last and best FB was a woman I'll call "Sarah". She and I last had sex around three months before my wife and I began formally dating, though Sarah did show up at my bachelor party. No sex, but a wonderful late night of CFNM (Clothed Female Naked Male) that probably blew my soon-to-be Brother-in-Law's mind. More about that shortly. Sarah and I were terrific friends in college, connecting some time in our sophomore year. I worked at the school's food service unit to make spending money, and she l

            (The title of this column refers to the very funny line in BACK TO THE FUTURE, as spoken by the main character's rather befuddled father. I'm not befuddled...much...but density is the focus of this entry.) Denser pubes and a leaner tummy As my regular readers are aware, and as I discussed on my last column, I am going through a period of losing significant weight and putting on some serious muscle. I have a long way to go on both counts, but am over some pretty big (pardon the pun) hurdles already. I'm down 55 pounds from my all-time high five years ago, with only around 35 to go to my current target - I'll re-evaluate if I want to go beyond that point once I get much closer to the original goal. I'm feeling healthier and getting two thumbs up from my cardiologist. Sexually my erections are much firmer than they were, and - unfortunately - my sex drive is higher than any time in the last couple of decades. I say unfortunately because my wife is still una

            Sorry that it's been a while since my last post (sounds like a confessional opening), but life, as it has for almost everyone, has run away with itself. Plus I haven't really had much to talk about above and beyond rehashing older topics.I', still losing weight, though it's slower than before. And I still have no sex life. And we're in the midst of a massive pandemic which has crushed our social lives, but you knew that part already. But in the midst of all that, I'm getting naked a lot more often. My weight loss, although nowhere near done, has given me the self-confidence to wear less and less as often as possible.  I enjoy being naked now, as opposed to being embarrassed by it, and can easily be with other people at the time. It isn't exhibitionism as much as comfort, thought I have to admit there's a part of me that enjoys CFNM, CMNM and times when everyone is socially naked. (That latter one hasn't happened in decades, however. "