"Just Jack"
Masturbation is a very personal thing.
By that I mean that what we enjoy, and how we enjoy it, is as unique, I think, as the number of people
who do it. Which is just about everybody. (Stop lying, we know you do it too.)
I masturbate fairly frequently now that my wife is suffering though her woes. Depending upon my stress level it may go from three or four times a week to daily. And on infrequent occasions I am a fucking teenager again.



Penthouse Letters was also formative. Smaller, and easier to hide, it became my go-to for excitement.
A single issue could provide hours of enjoyment as far as I was concerned.

So it became a game as to which of us was the more daring at masturbating each other. And we got quite creative. Under a blanket in the dorm community room while watching tv with a half dozen other people. I started that one. Got her off twice in the course of a single movie, and nobody let on that they knew what I was doing. The only clue I had she was enjoying herself was the gradual digging of her nails into my arm, which was itself exciting knowing what I was doing to her under the blanket.

Obviously we had fewer occasions when she could get me off - the inevitable pre-cum and cum shot made things a lot messier if there wasn't a ready receptacle. This limited my options a bit more than hers. In my room we had the assorted towel or washcloth, but couldn't bring those things along when we went somewhere. We had to be ready, somehow, for my orgasm since walking around afterward with a lapfull of cum wasn't my idea of discretion or fun. And she hated the taste of cum, so swallowing it was out.
We had the assorted handjobs in the university's quad (nighttime) and once or twice in the back seat of a friend's car as we all went out for the evening - or more likely headed back to the dorms after a night on the town. But I don't like the sensation of cold cum in my briefs, and even if your cumshot is outside there is some leakage afterward if you can't clean up or urinate. Guys will be nodding at this.
(I recall vividly her rushing to my room one evening, completely flustered. She told me she'd been masturbating on her bed, totally nude after a shower, when her roommate walked in. There was the usual jumping up, covering and apologies in both directions, but being caught really turned my girlfriend on. I made her tell me about it in detail, including what she'd been fantasizing about and her position facing the door. It really got her going and we immediately got her off. This particular fantasy became fodder for other things, but we'll leave that for a future column. I had a similar experience a couple of years later when a friend walked in as I was jacking in my apartment's private bathroom. He wasn't part of our group, just a casual acquaintance. Poor guy was almost beside himself trying to apologize through the rapidly slammed door...insisting he hadn't seen a thing. Needless to say Lil Rambler lost his interest, frustrating my day.)

All of which was part of my formative time. Jacking is just another form of sexual stimulation, and, as I noted above, it's become more important with my wife's problems. Just a fact of life.
Undoubtedly a psychologist will uncover a lot should I ever enter therapy. Masturbation always seems to raise an eyebrow if you admit to doing it frequently. But for now it's between me, my cock and anyone who wanders in without knocking.
Masturbation is a very personal thing>Growing up I was joined in the fun by my younger half bro and he jacked off together frequently being excited at watching the other guys cock as it got towards climax.
ReplyDeleteLater in life masturbation became the alternative to sex and I turned to stimulation to help with arriving as a decent climatical ejaculation - the use of various substances for cock lubes, cock rings and anal toys and vibrators.
But these were moments when masturbation was the substitute for sex.
At other times , driving, walking through woods or sitting ion a beach its the moment that drives my erection into my hand when I can enjoy a protracted session of cock stroking before shooting a cum load with great pleasure and delight.
I have been masturbated my guys and returned the pleasure and wow, the difference that makes having a strange hand stroking your tool, working out the pre cum lube untill you finally fire of a great wad in a high arc.
Even I supposed wet dreams could be called a form of masturbation and they are usually totally intense and leave me out of breath and highly charged